dating

"Why can't I ever find the right guy?" How many of us have heard this question or asked it ourselves?
Rabbi Rietti points out that such statements send ourselves negative messages. "Why can't I" stresses the negative, the fact that "I can't". But is this a true statement? Can you indeed not find the right one?
Rabbi Rietti proposes a new and interested question. Before each date ask yourself, "What new information can I learn about myself today?" Make the focus yourself, what you can learn and how you can grow. After all, the only person you will forever be living with is yourself. Use dating as an experience to learn more about yourself.